NEVER ASK WOMEN WHAT THEY WANT
Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
Success Coach - Doc Love
I just read that 47,000 women answered People Magazine's reader's poll on the subject of
what women want in men. They reported that the most important attribute for a man to have
is a sense of humor, according to 43%. 31% value sensitivity first. 19% say intelligence.
6% rank good looks first, and just 2% say money is most important.
Once the guy gets her phone number, 47% of women expect him to call within 24 hours, and
47% will wait up to three days. Only about 5% are still willing to hear from him after a
I'm curious on your take, Doc. What do you think? Which is the truth and which is the
Gordon - who wants to know if women are capable of communicating what they actually want
Brainwashing, yep, you can say that again. As usual, the politically correct
Feminista-dominated media have come up with a bunch of half-truths when it comes to
understanding women. Why? To confuse you guys even more that you are.
Remember that trying to find out what women want by asking them is like trying to get Gary
Condit to tell you how he honestly feels about marriage and commitment. You'll get an
answer, but it won't have much to do with reality.
I have interviewed thousands of women and not one ever said to me:
1. I want a man whom I can't control.
2. I want a man who, when I test him, does not give in.
3. I want a man who keeps me guessing.
But you will see many women in long term-committed relationships with guys who have these
OK Gordon, now let's go over this list so I can un-brainwash you and the rest of mankind.
Yes, most women do prefer a guy with a sense of humor. When a guy is able to consistently
make a woman laugh, it shows her that he is confident and also fun to be with. And as we
all know, girls just want to have fun. But the idea that a sense of humor is the number
one attribute that women look for in a man is a bunch of malarkey.
In order for a woman to even give a hoot whether you have a sense of humor she first has
to find you physically attractive. If she's not physically attracted to you, you can be
more hilarious than Robin Williams on speed and you still won't have a chance for romance
with her. The Reality Factor says that you have to pass (her) Physical Attraction Test
first in order to get to first base.
If a sense of humor were really the trait that women found most important in men, then all
the funny guys who look like Danny De Vito would be as successful with women as all the
It's fascinating to observe how reluctant women are to admit how important looks are to
them - as evidenced by these poll results. You don't necessarily have be the hunk from
heaven, but in order to click with a particular chick, you need to have a look that she
likes or you ain't gonna get the love boat out of the dock no matter how hard you paddle.
The poll results revealed that 31% of women say they value "sensitivity"
foremost. Now there's a loaded word if I ever heard one. What do they mean by
"sensitivity?" They don't explain it, do they? What a woman usually means when
she says she wants a "sensitive" guy, is that she wants a guy who will share all
of his emotional pain, will dutifully listen to her complaints about everything and will
happily take orders from her. Of course this type of guy is always getting rejected or he
is kept around as a dartboard for all of her zingers. You see, Gordon, more female
So almost half of the women who responded to the poll expect a guy to call within 24
hours? Yeah, they EXPECT a guy to call within 24 hours because 90% of men can barely wait
even that long before they call. Unfortunately, thousands of guys are going to read those
poll results and will feel even more justified in jumping the gun as they always do.
And according to the poll, only 5% of women are willing to hear from a guy after a week.
FALSE! It would have been much more helpful and revealing if the People pollsters had
asked those women a question like: Have you ever had a relationship with a guy who waited
a week or longer to call you? If so, why did you date him even though he waited that long?
Then we would have gotten some valuable information.
19% (1 in 5) want intellegence. Does this mean that 4 out of 5 women are looking for
stupid life long partners?
And now guys, for the biggest whopper of them all. According to the poll, only 2% (1 in
50) of women are gold diggers. How does that jive with your experience? How many women
have asked you, "What do you do?"
Remember; don't get brainwashed by the poll-takers questions and women's answers.
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Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars.
For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with
one man versus another?"
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