to Catch a Beautiful Woman
Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
Success Coach - Doc Love
I think your advice is absolutely great. I just recently started reading your articles,
and you definitely get into the root of things that many guys cannot figure out. Your info
about how to tell whether a woman is really interested in you or not has totally blown my
I consider myself very handsome and in good shape. I'm 27 and also make decent money and
have a great personality. In fact, I have no problem meeting women and have had a good
share, but not enough to say I want to settle down with one. Almost all the women I have
been with have been 7's or 8's.
I live in Los Angeles, and I know you lived here also, so you know the caliber of women
here. I would like to know how I can meet the 10's or the super stunning model type women
who seem like they're out of my league. When I go out on weekends to a nightclub I see
several women that could easily be on the cover of Playboy. But I don't understand how to
meet these women. What's the secret? Being a Challenge and waiting for them to notice me
does not work, because THEY seem to be the Challenge and they know it.
I've been telling myself I'll have to wait until I make more money, but I really don't
want to wait. I want to upgrade now. Any suggestions Doc?
Benny - who wants to catch a beautiful woman
Allow me to give you a few tips to help you be more successful with beautiful women. First
of all, you're trying to meet them in 'all the wrong places.' Although nightclubs are one
of the best places to FIND beautiful women, they're one of the worst places for actually
meeting them. Yes, these venues are stocked with babes, but generally speaking, bars and
clubs are not user - friendly environments for men.
Most of the beautiful women who go there, go there to dance, to flirt, to be ogled, to get
off on their own power, to get free drinks, or just to chatter with their girl friends,
without any intention of actually looking for a relationship partner. Besides that, they
all go there with their defenses up.
Men are generally looked upon by women as guilty until proven innocent: a possible rapist,
abuser, weirdo, jerk, stalker, geek etc. But in a night club, that "you're on
trial" attitude that men get from women is even more magnified. So circumvent that
whole setup which has the odds stacked against you.
You'll have much more success, for example, at an acting class, a cooking class, a New Age
Seminar, a Swing Dance Studio, a comedy improv workshop, or a twelve-step meeting (if
appropriate for you.) There won't be as many 'knock outs' at these places as at the
hottest club in Hollywood, but the ones that you do meet will be much friendlier and much
more accessible. And remember you only need one.
Another thing you can do that can make a huge difference in the attention you get from
beautiful women is to be seen with one on your arm. By that I refer to going out to an art
gallery opening, for instance, with your beautiful cousin or your best friend's gorgeous
wife who is also your good buddy and who will be happy to touch your arm a lot while the
other heavies are watching.
Then, let your gorgeous female buddy be the "point man" for you (so to speak.)
Let her strike up conversations with the other beautiful female art lovers. Then, let her
ambiguously introduce you as her "VERY good friend" while she squeezes your
hand. That's a much more elegant approach than going in 'cold' in a noisy nightclub.
My final tip for you, Benny, is: never think that the 10's are out of your league. The
guys who get them don't think that way, so why should you? Just realize, however, that the
higher you go up on the female beauty scale, the higher the maintenance factor. A 10 is
twice the trouble of an 8 plus twice as difficult to keep.
Remember guys, you not only marry her looks, but also her attitude.
To send me your love questions or to find out more about The
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Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars.
For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with
one man versus another?"
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