Getting Past Sexual Barriers...
I want to share a secret with you that will blow your mind. Warning: When you first hear
this secret you might feel a bit disconcerted. If you already have truck loads of
experience with women you might think to yourself, Wow
someone else knows about
this too! If you are a woman reading this, you might say to yourself, No!
Now the male world is going to be privy to the truth.
Most guys who have at least some experience in the dating game have
encountered women who were ATTRACTED to them but would not kiss them. Almost a hundred
percent of the time men respond to this barrier in the same way, as if they were one
person with one brain. They think that if a woman wont kiss them, she will not have
sex with them.
They assume to get sexual with her they need to kiss her first, and to kiss her they need
to build an emotional connection with her. Sometimes its important to build an
emotional connection, making her feel comfortable with you, before getting sexual with
her. Other times, however, its not.
There are situations where trying to kiss a woman or build an emotional connection with a
woman will actually deter you from having sex with her. Most men, however, are incompetent
with a dash of stupidity in these situations. This is because mens minds are
designed to process information in a logical and linear way. Womens emotions,
however, dont work in a linear fashion.
Men intuitively think that in order to sleep with a woman they have to go through a linear
sequence of steps. When women put up resistance, many men construe it as a barrier they
must break down to progress to the next step. This usually ensues in more resistance.
So this begs the question: What is the secret way, Swinggcat, for handling women who
like you but will not kiss you?
I discovered this secret many years ago while out one night with this woman who is
lumbered with one of the most perfect bodies I have ever seen. She was wearing low cut
jeans. As she walked her jeans began to slip down, down down they slipped, down around the
cheeks of her rear, a perfect rim of thing, held up by the crotch of her pants. Not only
was I aroused, but focused on my goal: To score with this luscious babe. I managed to get
her into my bedroom. We sat and talked on my bed. I remember she was wearing this low cut
top. Shes really working those breasts in there, bouncy bouncy, I
thought to myself. We started to cuddle. I was aroused indeed. I went in for the
kill, smacking my lips against hers. I was, however, unpleasantly surprised as she pushed
me away. I made a few tragic tries at connecting with her. Then made a few more
frustrating attempts at kissing her but she kept pushing me away. This started to put my
teeth on edge. To ease the frustration I started daydreaming about a hot bath, an all you
can eat buffet
and something to keep me going a picture of myself on a king
size bed with two really hot girls, them kissing each other, me kissing them. Then I
drifted back to reality, and started to agonize: Its going to be impossible to
get this girl to kiss me.
To ease my mind, I thought, I will try something so impossible that I
wont even be able to agonize over it succeeding. I am going to attempt to have sex
with her without even kissing her. So, this is what I did: I spooned her from
behind, started rubbing her thighs, lowered her pants, and started stimulating her with my
fingers. This ensued in sex.
Heres whats weird: Afterwards I tried to kiss her, but she pushed me away.
Since then I have realized that many women will have sex with a man, despite their
disinclination to get intimate with him.
This, my friends, is the crux of the issue: Just because a woman resists being intimate
with you, doesnt mean she is not open to having sex with you. And sometimes trying
to emotionally connect with a woman will only make her resist more.
Am I saying that all women dont want an emotional connection? Not at all many
do. There are, however, a lot women who are not open to having an emotional connection
with a stranger maybe, for example, they are married, or have been hurt in a past
relationship, or have a hard time trusting people they dont know well yet
they are open to having sex with one.
There are, furthermore, a number of women in committed relationships who are open to
having sex with strangers, yet will not kiss them. This is because
kissing is meaningful, while sex is just sex, to quote female friend of
mine. Her words voice the sentiments of part of the female population. This is not
something I endorse. It is important, however, to be aware that this is the reality of
The moral of the lesson is this: Attracting women is not always a linear process. Although
a lot of women need to feel comfortable and have an emotional connection with a man before
sleeping with him, other females flee from these emotional connections. So, if you find
yourself confronted with a barrier, back up and assess the sort of woman you are dealing
with before proceeding further.
Being able to handle these barriers comes down to knowing how to set strong frames, and
read women. Both of these subjects are covered in my book. Im getting ready to
release a ton of mind shattering material. To benefit the most from it, you need to have
read my book. So, if you havent taken the chance to pick up a copy, do so today:
Dude if we ever meet I owe you dinner. I used to be so shy talking to chicks at clubs.
Your book has really changed that. I used your qualifying and challenging technique to
make out with a hotty in a bar for the first time. Swinggcat, you da man!
A from Texas
Hearing this makes me feel that all of my effort is worth while. I would love to use this
as a testimonial on my webpage cool? Keep up the good work.
i have been having some good success with your meta intent exercise from
your charisma newsletter. I have always had a hard time getting really good looking girl
to keep talking to me. but since doing the exercise they dont want to leave me. they
just keep wanting stay longer. but I want to turn it physical. how do I do that?
Good job on doing the Meta-Intent exercise. Im going to go out on a limb, though,
and guess that you havent read my book am I right?
In my book I describe in great detail how to go from talking to a woman to getting
physical with her. This is a subject that is almost entirely neglected by other dating
experts. One of the specific techniques I talk about in my book is physical
push-pull. This is when you physically pull a woman into you, and then
physically push her away from you. Doing this emotionally compels women to
WANT to get physical with you. Mastering this one skill - no matter what your skill with
women currently is - will increase your success with women by a minimum of 50%.
My book is probably the only place on the planet where you can learn physical push-pull.
So, take your success with women to the next level by picking up a copy today.
Till next time,
P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to share, or a question you would like to
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Include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country,
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This whole "learning" thing goes both ways, you know! Oh, and be sure not to
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